34. Providing a Voice to Children – Teaching about Children Sexual Abuse Including to Boys

On this episode of the Puberty Prof podcast Dr. Kelli Palfy talks honestly about the need to educate our children, as well as adults, on the variety of concerns regarding child sexual abuse. After noting the need to include boys in these conversations, Dr. Palfy addresses the realities of perpetrators, grooming techniques used, the challenge of defining “trusted adults,” and holding perpetrators accountable.

Note: Please, if a memory is raised about an experience pertaining to this topic, get the support you deserve! This can include referring to the resources below, like RAINN. This resource (RAINN) has a page of Survivor Stories to remind us that, if sexual abuse or assault happened to you, you are not alone.

Click here to contact Dr. Palfy  

To purchase her book, go to MEN TOO.

Resources focusing on child sexual abuse, education, and support referred to in this episode include:

1 in 6 (Sexual Abuse and Males)

RAINN.org

Erin’s Law

Consent for Kids

Remember to check out the TALK Puberty app to further help you start and continue conversations. This app allows you to go over specific topics at your own speed and comfort level. Sections include: Basic Questions About Puberty, Questions About Most Girls, Questions About Most Boys, Other Questions Children Often Ask, and Open-Ended Questions.  https://apps.apple.com/us/app/talk-puberty-app/id1518896929

Another resource that can provide you with more information for what questions children might ask is the book Common Questions Children Ask About Puberty . This book is the recipient of the Mom’s Choice Gold Award, the B.R.A.G. Medallion Medal, and the Wishing Shelf Bronze Award.